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  • GM Avetik Grigoryan GM Avetik Grigoryan

What Champions Search for (and Where)

Why do we keep searching where it’s bright, even when the keys are lost in the dark? Champions know better.

Psychology and Mental Toughness | 1 min read
What Champions Search for (and Where)

A man is down on his hands and knees under a streetlamp.
A policeman walks by.
“What are you searching for?”
“My keys.”
“Did you lose them here?”
“No. But there’s light here.”

We laugh at the story.
Then realize we live it.

In life and in chess.

We look for answers where it’s comfortable.
Where there’s light.
Where we already know how to look.

In chess, we study what we already enjoy.
Openings. Tactics. Flashy checkmates. YouTube videos and fun streams.

But the real improvement often hides elsewhere.

In the losses we never analyze.
In the positions that make us uncomfortable.
In solving puzzles we can’t get from the first try.

In life, same thing.

We fix easy problems.
We read motivational quotes.
We clean our desks instead of our minds.
We talk about growth, but avoid the dark corners that actually hold the keys.

The truth is rarely found under the lamp.
It’s usually a few steps away, in the dark park, where we don’t want to go.

That’s where we dropped it.
That’s where we find it.

If you want to rise, in chess and in life, stop searching only where it’s bright.

Take your lamp.
And walk into the dark.

Because champions don’t just search where there’s light.
They bring light wherever the truth hides.

With best wishes and love,
For your growth and fun journey,
GM Avetik (or Avo, as my friends call me)

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P. S. Which dark park will you go to tomorrow? What will you look for?
Share it with us in the forum.

P. P. S. I’m just a FedEx guy, delivering lessons from my teachers to you.
If this message spoke to you and you know someone who might love or need this… share the package.
That’s how knowledge travels, one package at a time.

Thank you for reading, for growing, and for helping someone else along the way. 🙏

Originally published Nov 5, 2025

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